fix: harden security, fix concurrency bugs, and address review findings

Security:
- rate limit /api/webhook routes per-IP and cap concurrent site syncs
- global SSE connection cap (256) with new sse_gate
- validate ?tail= and cap JSON log responses at 4 MiB
- strip ANSI/CSI/OSC and control bytes from streamed log lines
- redact webhook secret from request log middleware
- scrub host details from /api/health for non-admin viewers
- drop container_id from /api/system/stats/top for non-admins
- generate webhook secrets via crypto/rand; require >=32 chars on insert
- verify iid path consistency in streamContainerLogs
- LimitReader on site webhook body; reject malformed non-empty bodies

Concurrency / correctness:
- stats collector: Stop() no longer hangs without Start(), semaphore
  acquired in parent loop so ctx cancellation short-circuits the queue,
  in-flight tick cancellable via shared base context, zero-ts guard
- webhook handler: replace fire-and-forget goroutine with WaitGroup-tracked
  workers + Drain() wired into graceful shutdown
- $derived(() => ...) mis-idiom fixed in ContainerStats / InstanceCard /
  ProjectCard (returned function instead of value)
- SystemResourcesCard: rename `window` and `t` locals to avoid shadowing
  globalThis.window and the i18n `t` import

Quality / performance:
- replace O(n^2) insertion sort with sort.Slice in stats top
- runMigrations only swallows duplicate-column / already-exists errors
- PruneStatsSamplesBefore wrapped in a transaction
- collapse N+1 in unusedImageStats / pruneImages to one ListAllInstances
  pass; surface DB errors instead of silently treating them as inactive
- run Docker Info + DiskUsage in parallel via errgroup
- container log SSE emits `: ping` heartbeat every 20 s
- imageMatches case-insensitive on registry host (RFC behaviour)
- log warning on invalid stage tag pattern instead of silent skip
- reject malformed non-empty site webhook payloads

Frontend / i18n:
- shared formatBytes utility replaces three local copies
- statsInterval store drives dynamic "no samples / collection disabled"
  copy across ContainerStats and SystemResourcesCard
- top consumers row now shows owner_name (project/stage or site name)
- drop seven `as any` casts on the Settings type; add cloudflare_api_token
  write-only field
- move "Service status", "Docker daemon", "Docker unreachable",
  "Proxy unreachable", "reachable", and "Docker daemon is not reachable."
  strings into en/ru i18n bundles

web/src/lib/components/InstanceCard.svelte

@@ -32,7 +32,7 @@
 			: instance.subdomain ? `https://${instance.subdomain}` : ''
 	);
 
-	const timeSinceCreated = $derived(() => $fmt.relative(instance.created_at));
+	const timeSinceCreated = $derived($fmt.relative(instance.created_at));
 
 	async function handleAction(action: 'stop' | 'start' | 'restart' | 'remove') {
 		loading = true;
@@ -90,7 +90,7 @@
 
 			<div class="mt-1.5 flex items-center gap-3 text-xs text-[var(--text-tertiary)]">
 				<span class="rounded bg-[var(--surface-card-hover)] px-1.5 py-0.5 font-mono">:{instance.port}</span>
-				<span>{timeSinceCreated()}</span>
+				<span>{timeSinceCreated}</span>
 			</div>
 		</div>