Critical fixes:
- Fix StaleContainer frontend type to match nested backend response shape
- Guard ContainerID[:12] slice against empty/short IDs in ListAllProxies
High-priority fixes:
- Support comma-separated severity/source in event log filtering (IN clause)
- Eliminate N+1 queries in ListAllProxies and FindStaleInstances (pre-load maps)
- Stop leaking internal error messages to API clients (use slog + generic msgs)
Add standalone proxy management:
- Multi-step validation pipeline (DNS, TCP, HTTP) with diagnostic hints
- Proxy lifecycle: create/update/delete via NPM API with SSL auto-assign
- Periodic health monitoring (5min) with event log on status transitions
- Unified /api/proxies/all endpoint merging standalone + managed proxies
- Frontend types and API functions for downstream UI phases