Add adaptive FPS and honest device reachability during streaming

DDP uses fire-and-forget UDP, so when a WiFi device becomes overwhelmed
by sustained traffic, sends appear successful while the device is
actually unreachable. This adds:

- HTTP liveness probe (GET /json/info, 2s timeout) every 10s during
  streaming, exposed as device_streaming_reachable in target state
- Adaptive FPS (opt-in): exponential backoff when device is unreachable,
  gradual recovery when it stabilizes — finds sustainable send rate
- Honest health checks: removed the lie that forced device_online=true
  during streaming; now runs actual health checks regardless
- Target editor toggle, FPS display shows effective rate when throttled,
  health dot reflects streaming reachability, red highlight when
  unreachable
- Auto-backup scheduling support in settings modal

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 <noreply@anthropic.com>

server/src/wled_controller/static/css/cards.css

@@ -549,6 +549,10 @@ ul.section-tip li {
     color: #4CAF50;
 }
 
+.fps-unreachable {
+    color: #ff5252;
+}
+
 /* Timing breakdown bar */
 .timing-breakdown {
     margin-top: 8px;